Dealing with orders you don't agree with

Arguably, the hardest part of being a manager is managing your team through an executive decision you don't agree with. Before you throw up your hands, heed this thoughtful advice.

Your team members aren't the only ones affected by the deep budget cuts and staff reductions that accompany tough economic times. Managers are employees, too, and change and uncertainty affect how eager we are to get out of bed each morning, as well.

But as managers, it falls to us to just keep soldiering on and doing the best we can with what we have. I often say that if work was always fun, you wouldn't get paid; I imagine that's a little cynical, but at some point every working manager has to execute on a plan that he or she simply doesn't like or strongly disagrees with.

What's the secret to marching on and keeping your sanity, along with a smidgen of your team's respect? It's not easy, and in some ways it requires a degree of detachment and reserve that you may find a little distasteful and out-of-synch with a casual management style. (Again, remember that you are getting paid to do this, so buckle up, soldier.) I'll also throw out a slightly petulant notice that my advice is not for managers whose singular objective is personal advancement in the corporate ranks--there are plenty of tried-and-true ways to play that game to its inevitable conclusion. This column is for plain-old working stiffs who want to make the positives outweigh the negatives.

So, here are my rules for being a good corporate solider. Not quite the Geneva Convention, but then again, the first and most essential rule I can cite is:

  1. Remember that there will be no casualties; it's just work

    Workaholic manager types tend to have a lot of trouble here (I know I've been guilty of this one myself), but a little perspective is essential. Your world is not going to disintegrate if a project collapses or a business fails, and neither are the lives of your employees. Go have a drink with your nonwork buddies once in a while, blow off some steam, and remember that your team is doing the same. Lighten up.

  2. Decide whether you really want to be a soldier in this army, and then get on with it

    Daily self-reflection on whether you really want to work for your employer will make you a wreck, and your team is going to notice (again, guilty here). Talk to some trusted friends, your therapist, your spouse--anyone outside the workplace--weigh the pros and cons of the situation, and then commit yourself to a plan of action. Yes, maybe you should go find a new job, particularly if your employer is asking you do something you think is just outright immoral (that does happen). But whatever the case, fix your allegiances and then start marching.

  3. Ask your general for "permission to speak freely"

    Before you embark on an initiative that you find a little spurious, ask for a meeting with your boss to run through your key issues. Prepare for the meeting with a list of risk factors and the potential downsides that have you leery; in good faith, go ahead and document your concerns via e-mail--a sense of formality is appropriate in conflict situations such as these. Be laborious in detailing your reservations about what seem to be even the most obvious problems with the proposed move; blurting out "it's just stupid" is seldom going to pervasively make your point, particularly since someone somewhere doesn't seem to think it's so stupid.

    Metrics are your best ally here; ask to the see the ROI projection or some other key bottom-line impact from the planned shift, so that you can educate yourself a little further and, if appropriate, challenge the idea at the root of its perceived value proposition. And try to come up with a couple of tweaks that can at least improve upon some aspect of the project--it's called "adding value," and it goes a long way in selling criticisms to your boss.

    Finally, ask your boss if you can present your concerns and suggestions to the relevant group of senior managers. Maybe it's too late to pull the brake cord, but at least your suggestions may temper the impact on your team. If your boss says that you can't communicate up or over the ladder, don't freak out, but I advise you to reconsider point number two on my list.

Advertisement

Talkback 0 comments

Sponsored content

Power Centre - Content from our premier sponsors

Blogs

  • Phil Dobbie Is wholesale-only backhaul just a pipedream?
    The potential acquisition of Pipe Networks by SP Telemedia has raised the question about whether vertically integrated backhaul providers will mean higher wholesale prices for ISP customers.
  • Array Get extensions going in Firefox, redux
    Previously on Null Pointer we looked at getting extensions working in Firefox betas, and that was great until the fine folks at Firefox changed their minds.
  • Array How reliable is IP telephony?
    Have you ever heard a weird kind of hissing, crackling or popping noise when calling someone on an IP telephony line? How rare is the phenomenon these days?
  • More blogs »

Tags

Back to top

Featured